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Category Archives: BDSM
This is the Chalice Lighting I read at the June 27 Celebration of Life.
I asked the God if it was okay that
I’m homosexual.
He answered yes and sent me on my way.
I asked the God if it was okay that
I’m into kink.
He answered yes and sent me on my way.
I asked the God if it was okay that
I like my martinis dirty and my beer layered.
He answered yes and sent me on my way.
I asked the God if it was okay that
my favorite color is black.
This time my God did something different.
He asked me a question.
“Why would I care who you love or how,
what you drink or your favorite color?
My only desire is for you to be you –
whoever, whatever, however you are.”
If he’s amenable, you can talk to my Cub. You can dance with him. You can buy him a drink. Keep your hands off of him. He’s mine. That’s why he’s wearing the collar with a lock. He’s not going home with you. You’re not coming home with us. It’s our arrangement, and it works very well. I’m the Dom, the power top. He’s my Cub. I own him. He’ll do as I instruct. In return, I’ll keep him safe, secure, and satisfied – even make ultimate pancakes washed down with
pomegranate juice and hot coffee. To your surprise, I’ll serve them up to him, in bed, on Sundays, for I am a tender owner. I won’t tell you how he inspired this on Saturday night. That’s between us.
I can also be a very rough master. He encourages that in me. For his pains, he has the privilege to wake me up when I’m snoring too loudly for him to sleep. I have the key to his chastity devise around my neck. He wears the key to my heart around his. If you saw us at the gym, you’d think we were workout buddies and good friends. You’d be right, of course, but you wouldn’t realize how we sate the passions that lifting a few tons ignites.
It may not make sense to anyone – not even us. It doesn’t have to. And just to be clear, there’s no need for forgiveness because there’s no sin. Our lifestyle isn’t for everyone. We’re okay with that. We’re not trying to convert anyone to what’s right for us. We ask only for the same consideration we give others. Please understand that I’m not abusive or taking advantage of him. I won’t let you do it either. If he’s not a free agent in our relationship, I’m nauseated. At the same time, I’m not dick-whipped. I’m very much in charge.
Meet us with some courtesy, some sympathy, and some taste, and I assure you, we’ll reciprocate. Judge not unless you’re willing to face judgement. Respect us, and we’ll respect you. Befriend us, and you’ll have two very loyal friends who will love you even if the Gods turn against you. Fuck with us…well, it’s better off if you just don’t fuck with the Bears.
Warning…This is one of my Erotic Escapades.
It’s a St. Stephen’s Day. The Christmas decorations still up and a light snow falling outside. The rest of the city’s asleep. I’ve just seen the last guest off after a white tie dinner at my house–a fine, old Victorian mansion in the old part of town. My sub is a luscious ginger twink with pale skin and not a freckle anyplace–almost like a china doll, and fantastically sculpted uncut dick. We start a make out session in the living room and move up the stairs leaving a trail of clothes behind us.
By the time we’re at the top of the stairs, we’re both down to our boxers. He’s wearing the black ones he unwrapped a couple of days back. I scoop him up in my arms and carry him to the bed. We kiss for what seems like hours. I start making my way down his torso. His nipples are bright red rubies, and I let my tongues play across them and thrill at the way he gyrates under me. It’s time to use my teeth and bite down to send some exquisite pain through him. His dick is hard and he’s trying to reach down to tend to it before I get there. There are rules. He knows them. I grab him by the wrist and hold him firmly in place. I want to be the one giving him pleasure. I kiss my way down his chest, belly, and stop just as I reach his navel. I learned this trick from a boyfriend I has in my early twenties – younger than Reyes is now as a matter of fact. I let my tongue circle around the perimeter of his navel. When I hear the moans of pleasure, I plunge it in like a dick going into his hole. I work it back and forth, and in my frenzy at his frenzy I feel my own load starting to rise.
Suddenly he’s pulled away from me. We’re both panting. I look at him puzzled. “Sorry, I really gotta piss. It can’t wait.” I follow him into the bathroom. My idea is maybe to…Okay it’s not well thought out. Maybe kiss his neck while he’s draining his bladder? But just as he reached the toilet, it dawned on me. I circled his waist with arms. He tensed, and I took advantage. I reached in his fly and whipped out his half-hard cock for him. Obviously I’ve held my own dick while I pissed. I’ve seen lots of other men piss – sometimes erotically sometimes not. This is the first time I’ve done this though. “Go ahead,” I whispered in his ear “piss. I’ve got it all taken care of.” He trusts me, so he lets loose. It’s strange for both of us. Man, the feel of his piss running through him and into the toilet gave me a raging hard on. I flicked the droplet of urine from his member with one hand and pulled his boxers down with the other. Before he realized what had happened, he was facing me with his uncut dick in my mouth.
After he’d shot his load – yes I’m a swallower before you ask, I had my tongue working his chocolate starfish. Damn did he love that and pushed further and harder against my mouth. It was hard to get up and back to the bedroom, but we managed. Now it was his turn to give me a blow job. While I’m definitely on the medal stand in the Cocksucking Olympics, Reyes is the holder of the platinum medal they established just for him. I swear he can suck the chrome of a ‘57 Chevy from the next county. He also did his special trick. He slipped the condom on my dick as he was sucking it. Okay, kid, it’s fuck your ass time.
By now I was so horny that I swear it only took me six strokes to fill the rubber with juice, and Reyes came again. Well, he’s been such a good guy that I had to lick the cum off his stomach. We were asleep in each other’s arms as soon as we got the bed turned down.
Morning came, and with the new day came some some new experiences.

For a number of reasons, I wasn’t able to make the trek to Fog City for Folsom this year. I’ll think of it often and my Spirit will certainly be there. I might just need to make the travel arrangements early next year — like February. That should ensure I won’t be sitting in Falls City with my heart in San Francisco.
And the thing is, my boots really need the tender attentions of a dedicated — and hopefully uncollared — bootblack who will give them the love, attention, and matte finish they deserve. He can give the soles a good shine, make sure the 0-rings on the straps have that fine, nickle shine to them…Okay, before I start into a fantasy from which I won’t easily recover, I’ll change the subject — sort of.
The thing I’ve always found at leather events, is that you’re accepted for who you are — well inked bear who’s into much kink or pretty vanilla twink. That doesn’t mean that everyone there desires you — or you everyone else. It simply means accepted for who and what you are. “She’s a bisexual dominatrix, vegan, ex-nun from the Bronx, and he’s a gay muscle Dom — complete bottom sexually though.” It’s all good.
And as I often am wont to do, I wonder why the rest of the world can’t learn these lessons. “So what if they do,” should be everyone’s point of view.


Yep, that the Pony Pride Flag. I was talking with a RACK Dom pixel-pal in London about my overworked calf muscle and said that it’s proof that a Leather Bear isn’t cut out to be a pony boy. That led me to thinking that I’ve discussed pup play — even wanted my own pup for a bit — but have never discussed any of the other forms that animal role-play can take.
Pony play is not something that appeals to me. However, “So what if they do?” That’s my point of view. I’ll also now give the props to Pansy Division for the phrasing. To be perfectly honest though, I have to admit that I found the sulky scene in Preaching to the Perverted most interesting. I can’t help but think I’d also be more than fascinated at an erotic pony dressage show or at the pony races.
I know there are some who would find this sort of sexual outlet degrading to some set or other. But in BDSM circles, that just isn’t the case. The participants are all more than willing players in the scene. Respect by all for all is generally a given, and all are welcome at the feast.
By-the-bye, the phrase Aristotelian Perversion comes from the legend that Aristotle was a fan of being ridden. That’s almost as cool a euphemism as raising dogs in the country. Anyway, you have to wonder what all went on at that school for boys in Pella. Oh for the reality of time-travel.
he calls 
his soft hard
uncertainty
cures my Aching
shackled by His design
imprisoned by His touch
my pleasure is pain
on the Rocks

